When will you or would you tell him or her...

jmepurple

If you have a LO and the father is not involved at all.  If find that one that will be there for you and your LO and be a father to them....how and when would you tell them about their biological father?  Do you think that LO would harbor resentment or use the term towards your SO "your not my father why should I listen to you"?  I was discussing this scenario with my bestie and I'm at a loss as to when and how that would ever be handled if I were to ever be in that situaion.  Just curious...what are your thoughts?

 

ETA: I am a single parent and was wondering how I am going to handle this if it ever comes about.