Got through first mediation appointment, no problems!

Annplus1

The advice to have a part of me be the protector for the weak part of me was awesome. Made me feel like I had a warrior on my side to make sure I was good, even if it was just me. When I got weepy in my head, the "warrior" part gently pushed her aside and said "I got this".

I know it sounds weird, but it made life easier. Also, we both had to fill out an informational form incuding stating date of marriage. I glanced over on his page and all he could write was 2007. Really DB? You don't know what day we got married? And I care this much about what you are doing? No thank you.

 Found out it will cost more to get divorced while. pregnant, but seriously at this point it's worth every penny. I don't want to be holding my infant while trying to get divorced. I feel almost strong right now, so this is the best time to do it. Plus then when baby is born I am already on the new path my life is taking, not hanging out on the old one.

You know what? I was so scared to do this on my own. But I would be either way.