I work full time as a nurse practitioner. DH works part time as a teacher's aide. He is with DD more than me. I have had a hard time adjusting to this, but I make four times what he does, and I carry our benefits.
DH is with her all summer and takes her to the pool all the time. Today a kid came up to him and Ella and asked "Does your baby have a mommy?" When DH told me this I just started crying. I wish he didn't tell me this! DH thought it was funny, but he knows I have a hard time with working full time, and being away from Ella so much. Working just sucks sometimes.