What type of boundaries do you set?

klmfabulous

Hi All-

Like everyone else, my MIL is the biggest PITA.. so is my SIL....

They are always calling and wanting to come over and see the baby or do something with my husband, me and the baby.. it's always just at the wrong times.. they just don't get boundaries and when they should leave us alone...

I consider myself a very nice/somewhat shy person.. I am getting much better with being more stern and letting people know how I truly feel...any pointers?

 I guess the real question is.. how do you all set boundaries with the in laws?