Insurance and Doctors and Ex

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Can he force me to chose a certain insurance or doctor for LO?

I suppose it is a control issue on my part, but I am unwilling to have him put LO on his insurance (it is supposedly free for dependents which I find doubtful). Besides I already have LO enrolled for state insurance which is pretty darn close to free. 

As for a doctor, he wants to interview the new list of doctors. We are moving and so need a new pediatrician and I have a list of doctor recommendations to choose from. He has always had his name down in our file as someone who could call the doctor and ask questions but he has never shown any interest in being at a doctor's appointment. He stopped going to those after just one month. I don't care if he calls to ask questions (I really don't think he would actually do it) but can he really say yes or no to the doctor I chose?