if inviting both friends & family - would u be upset if a close friend wouldn't come to LO's fir

tummytime123

LO will have a big party and I am inviting both friends & family for this one.. and of my close friends chose to make other plans knowing about the day. i am not a confontational person and she does have other things on her mind, but would you be upset about this? i know the day is about my LO and not about me or anything but still. I can't help but take it personally. she also did not show up to my baby shower