A lot of what I read on 1st tri is so judgey and so far our board doesn't seem to be that way so maybe we need some commandments, we can add them to the blog if the blog goddesses agree
Thou shalt not judge a mom, or mom-to-be, for her decision to:
Have an unmedicated birth, medicated birth, c/s, vaginal delivery, at home, at hospital, etc.
Breast feed, Formula feed, combo feed, etc
Stay at home, work outside the home.
Choose to abstain from a large array of foods during pregnancy, eat whatever she wants during pregnancy
Have genetic testing, choose not to have genetic testing.
I think I've covered a lot of the usual judgey topics, anything else???