I need some advice ladies

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When Ryan goes to his dad's house they hold him all the time. Then when he is with me its a nightmare cause Ryan will cry nonstop until I hold him. I have already talked to his dad numerous times about it but he still doesn't listen. The only response I get from him is "well then I just won't hold him any more." I feel like telling him if that's the case then I won't take him over there but then I would just end up feeling guilty that I am robbing Ryan from spending time with them.

 What makes matters worse is I am still suffering from PPD and I spend all day alone with Ryan and when he comes back from visiting there I sometimes can't handle the screaming and crying and just want to run. Even if I tell his dad this he still doesn't get it.

 

Please, any advice would help.