Did You Have an "Aha!" Moment?

StrawberryAlarmClock

Excuse the cheesy teaching term, but was there a moment when it hit you that you'd be better off as a single mom? Would you care to share that moment with me? Also, if you feel like sharing, once you had that moment, how long did it take to act on it? And once you were a single mom, how long did it take to truly realize that you were better off? Sorry, I don't lurk over here so if you get this post ten times per day, feel free to just ignore me and I'll go digging TIA!!