I miss my wine, and we have some awesome stuff that needs to be used or given away (if it's not already old). DS is 6 months, so I'm thinking about having a glass here and there, probably only one or 2 a day, not every day.
Are you abstaining the whole time you BF? I've only had one coffee with liquer and one champagne @ a holiday party.
ETA: I know this is within the OK'd amount, I'm just asking what you personally are doing. Any reason not to follow the general advice?