needing some advice.. sorry its alittle long

misscpower

a little back info...

My boyfriend and i have been together for over a year and when i was about 6 months pregnant we found out a was pregnant, we were already living together and had the talk about trying to get pregnant and what that would be like. We both agreed it would be something that we BOTH want.

 Its been a pretty hard pregnancy, lots of sickness, hormones, and i had to have surgery.Been off work since November. And he has been pretty supportive, and is really excited.

Yesterday i noticed that he added some girl from Russia onto his facebook account, and it got me thinking. He had left his facebook open and there was a message from this girl. Of course i opened it and read it.

He was at work, and from 630am to when i read the message which was about 2pm they had been messaging back and forth pretty fast.

To sum the whole conversation up she was an exchange student back when they were in grade 8! And were talking about how they first kissed ect. Which would have been fine in my eyes until i read that he still "liked" her and wanted to see her hug her and kiss her... Calling her beaitful every other message. Also asking how expensive it is to fly to her hometown cause he really wants to see her.

He had also said in this conversation he lives with a girl and she is pregnant but didnt know if he was going to marry her. (which is a complete lie, he has a ring at the jewerly shop on hold)

 I am  competely hurt and have no idea how i should handle this situation. I played it off last night like nothing happened and ven made supper and his lunch for work this morning.. Mostly beacuse he told this girl he would be talking to her today and i want to see how far he is actually willing to take it.

Any advice would be amazing as I am 32 weeks pregnant and realizing now that maybe he isnt going to be the "perfect" father or boyfriend.

TIA xox