Never thought this would happen..

momranda

BD started dating someone else while I was pregnant. I was obviously pretty upset/bitter/pissed beyond belief/depressed/etc.. considering the fact that I was pregnant with his child, and he chose to totally ignore me for about 6 months of it, and use the clause "if its mine" for the other 3. Being the responsible mommy that I am, I have chosen to be civil with BD for the sake of DS, though in reality I have many moments that I want to curb stomp him (I hope im not alone in this..) DS goes to his dads during the day while I work 7-4 mon-fri, and of course BD's girlfriend is there pretty often. I went to pick DS up the other day and the girlfriend was out front, so I started talking to her. Then I ran into her later that night at a restaurant and talked to her again. Turns out, despite my efforts, I actually like this girl. Under different circumstances I would totally be her friend. Is this crazy?