I'm nervous...

MsJosie

My ex and his mother are coming into town tomorrow to talk "baby stuff". I'm 36 weeks today and NOW all of a sudden he wants to be involved? Where was he for the past 5 months of my pregnancy? I'm still trying to get over the breakup and I'm expected to put my feelings aside and try to focus on the "baby stuff"? I'm not sure exactly what they mean by that but I think this whole thing is planned by his mother and not him. He made it clear that he hates me and wants nothing to do with me, just our baby. I'm soo hurt still over our breakup, that I don't think I can bare the thought of seeing him.  He became verbally, emotionally, and physically abusive to me and was using cocaine. (I left when I was 4 1/2 months pregnant). He hasn't tried to be there throughout my pregnancy at all or apologize or anything.