S/O- if you circ'd...

Soleil3

Yes I know it's been done to death. I never cared because I have girls. Now I'm taking my own advice and was talking to my H about it, and we don't necessarily agree, and since we are team green/ hoping for a flasher babe, I want to work it out now.

Any unbiased resources would be great. Pass on the fear mongering.

If you circ'd, can you tell me what the process was like? What kind of effects short term? Was the care difficult? Is there a way to make sure the doctor is doing it correctly/ not taking to much or whatever?  At what age was it done? Any other tidbits you want to share?