D(egg/embryo) and DS ladies, seeking your advice

AmCheri

Morning everyone.

Tonight is a big night for us. We're telling my MIL/SIL/BIL that I'm pregnant. But it's more complicated than that because we're first going to come out of the IVF closet, tell our entire story and then end with announcing that I'm pregnant via DE. I'm incredibly nervous.

If you've had such a discussion with your families already, do you have any advice? Thanks!