We had started telling people and we decided that we needed to get the word out to his family (think big Italian family) before someone found out on their own. It was very fun to make those phone calls. Everyone was so happy for us.
This was the conversation with DH's aunt:
DH: "Auntie, its DH and Lily"
Auntie: "OH!!! You are both on the phone! This is good news! Oh, its good news! I am so happy! I can't wait to hear this news. I am so happy. This is good news!!!"
We are not outing on facebook anytime soon. We are going to tell the remaining of our good friends this week.
I almost forgot, we have been telling everyone that we had to see a specialist. (I had to jump into this conversation when DH told his 70 y/o aunt that we worked for a long time and it was really hard and very tiring process -- all true of IF but a bit icky for fertile thoughts).