Bachelorette Party. Please Help

mhickey426

I am also posting this on the March 2013 moms board if any of you are on there too.

Next weekend is my cousins bachelorette party in Atlantic Cit.  I am a bridesmaid in her wedding.  The weekend is going to consist of long nights, bars, clubs, casinos, dinner etc.  I do not think I want to go anymore.  I am going to be almost 7weeks at that point.  I am tiared all the time, I can't drink, people will be smoking all over the place, I might not be able to enjoy the food with m/s and who wants to have m/s during a bach party. I am worried if I go that I will be a party pooper.  I am sure that my cousin is going to be upset but I do not really think it is the best situation for me to be in at this point. 

My question to you ladies is what would you do? Would you go or not?  I already paid and would let them keep the money.  I also have not told the whole family that I am pregnant so do I tell the truth or just say I am sick? 

I am so torn. My mother, dh and mil say not to go but I feel bad.  Any advice would be appreciated.  Thank you