Advice please

onlymeggan

My sister-in-law's wedding is coming up and I'm the Matron of Honor and I'll be almost 10 weeks at that point.  I realize 2nd baby or not that I'm not showing yet but my gut is all out for the world to see right now.  I feel like a giant fat arse from this insane bloat.  My mother-in-law has requested I wear spanx or a girdle or something so I think I'm going to get those lovely panties that come up to your tatas.  There's the bit of back story.  So I'll get to my questions.

1.  How do I keep these tight panties from aggravating my m/s.

2. How do I get this psycho bloat under control.

3. At 10 weeks can I then call it showing?  LOL