Disrespectful or just trying to be nice???

Nicole1026

So, my MIL sends me a text the other day of the stroller she bought!!! Now this would be great if it was the one me and my DH picked out, but it wasn't.  She went out and decided to by what she wanted. I told her I was trying to find things that weren't the traditional boy colors, specifically blue and brown.  Guess what color the stroller is? BLUE and Brown!  She also informed me that her grandson will be going to church with her on Sundays? Um hello, I was sort of thinking I could take MY CHILD to church with me. She criticizes all my choices, and to be honest I really don't want her in the delivery room with me when I'm giving birth. Is anyone else dealing with MIL issues? How are you handling it, with out loosing your cool?