DH is bored with our life

cs1007

Okay so he did not say those actual words, but basically. He keeps saying how he is 'bored' and we 'never do anything'-I can't help but take it personally.

First off, I am pregnant. So I am tired! Not to mention I can't drink, so that makes a lot of nightlife choices a little less fun, IMO! Also, we have a 2.5 year old, and not a lot of reliable babysitters for options. Most of our friends are also pregnant and have little ones, so I suspect they are not doing much either. In addition, it is winter here...and I would prefer to bundle up on the couch and watch a movie/eat candy than get dressed up and go out. I told him if he wants to go out, go out with his friends cause I am tired of watching him mope, but he says he wants to hang out with ME...

And then there is the 'sex' issue. We are at about once a week...I really have ZERO interest, but give in because I feel bad/guilty. I can't help it-that is how I feel. I am a SAHM, so often I feel scrubby, have playdoh in my hair, or I am just tired and not feeling so hot.But he keeps wanting it, and I keep rejecting it. It makes it awkward...

I just feel like he is not happy right now, and I hate that I feel responsible! please tell me I am not alone!