tell me your pos and cons to finding out and NOt finding out gender

AprilAngie

I am torn.. to find out or not find out gender.  I am expecting # 4.  I have three boys.

My 1st I wanted to know but couldn't- he was a surprise. (my 1st not my husbands child so he has never experienced the surprise when baby is born)

My 2nd and 3rd we knew.  I hate the if you find out now you wont be suprised theory as you just know sooner..

Now Im expecting # 4.  Everyday I dunno if I want to know or not want to know gender.  I go back and forth.  Obvioulsy I know its mine and my dh's choice.. but Im so on the fence.  I guess the thing is when you know the gender its not as exciting.. but Im a planner and want to know to shop and get things ready.  Honestly Im just  so torn. Share your reasons for wanting OR not wanting to know Gender!  Help!  Thanks.