feeling obligated...

littlemonster417

A few weeks ago I attended a baby shower for a friend,it was a very nice shower, many people showed up and she got lots of great stuff.

Well I received an invite to a 2nd shower for her yesterday. It's a diaper/wipes shower, and scheduled for the day of my first shower so I am obviously not going, but I kind of feel obligated to get her more stuff. I did a bit of investigating on fbook and realized that everyone that was invited to the first one is now invited to the second one.. I think that is SO rude! I am having 4 showers, but not one person is invited to more than one.

Would y'all send diapers/wipes? Or just leave it at what I gave her for the first one?