Need Advice-Not finding out sex

LeighAnn922

Ok, so it's been an ongoing battle b/w my husband and I about finding out the sex of the baby.  I want to (and so does my family), but he doesn?t (and his family is on his side).  I want to find out because I feel like we can?t do anything with the nursery and everything we register for and get for the baby shower is going to be neutral.  Plus, I have fallen in love with this baby furniture set, but its white with white ribbon woodwork carved in it, it?s def. for a girl.   If we have a girl, I want her room pink and to scream "GIRLY".  If we have a boy, I want to go dark wood furniture and paint the room blue. I'm stressing at the fact that if we have to wait until after the baby comes to paint the nursery, decorate and get the furniture.  The last thing I?m going want to do after just having a baby and adjusting to motherhood is decorate the nursery. Plus, I?ll only be home for 6 wks before going back to work.  Any advice on what to do?