So for the past couple weeks I've been planning out my FI's birthday present. I was going to surprise him with a weekend in NYC with all the museums he's always wanted to see. He talks about going there a lot and how it would be a lot of fun. So last night we were talking about him getting a particular weekend off and he said he didn't want to go anywhere, and I told him he'll definitely want to go to this place, and he said "I don't want to go to New York"! I started crying and thanked him for ruining his surprise. I just thought it would be nice to get away one last time, do whatever we want without having to worry about anyone else. So now I have no birthday present for him, and don't really feel like giving him one either. Thanks for letting me vent.