SIL is pregnant - am I being selfish?

JackieMac824

I just found out that DH's sister is pregnant - they were not trying it just happened but they are very happy.  She will only be 3 week apart from me.  She said we should have a joint baby shower and all I could think is no way - I waited 5 year to get pregnant and stay pregnant and I want my time and my baby time to shine - I want my baby shower to be a celebration of how far we have come and what a wonderful miracle our child is.  In the long run I think it will be great that we have babies so close together because they can grow up together - but all I keep thinking is now my baby will have to share the spotlight - it will not be all about him/her.  I know this sounds so crazy but I just had to vent.