the moby wrap. I saw women wearing this thing and really didn't think it was for me. I just thought it looked like there was a lot of room for user error and that no piece of fabric could be secure enough for me to be carrying Jax around in. Well I had a doula that started today. She is mostly here to help with BFing issues as she is also a lactation consultant. However she brought her moby and wrapped him in it to do my dishes while I took a shower. He LOVED it. He was so happy in it she left it for me to try for the next couple of days to decide if I want to buy one. Well after our last feeding Jax was a little fussy and I put him in this thing and he is so happy and now fast asleep against my chest as I type. It is also very secure and I know there is no way he could fall out of this thing.
So if any of you are considering a wrap, I recommend the Moby. I have the Ergo for later on but this is perfect for infants. I might have to take a pic of him in it soon to share.