Here are a couple more photos to show the bag's scale. Here I am (I unfortunately cannot guarantee this bag will make you look as hot as I do here). It also has a long strap so you can carry it messenger style:
And here it is with all the stuff it comes with plus three cloth diapers, a travel highchair, three bowls/spoons/etc., some snacks, a baby book and some other stuff. It's not quite filled half way:
I made DH hold it for a while and asked him if he thought it was heavy. He said, "No! Not for a diaper bag, anyway." Interpret that as you will lol.
I tend to carry it mostly messenger style, but it's nice to be able to carry it as a tote as well.
Anyway, if you're interested, don't be shy about low balling me lol. Like I said, this needs to GO. And if you'd rather trade, that's cool too. :-)